Disclaimer: This post includes some "colorful" language.
This week, I started reading The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F***: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life by Mark Manson. In the first chapter of the book, he offered an opinion about social media:
"Our society today, through the wonders of consumer culture, and hey-look-my-life-is-cooler-than-yours social media, has bred a whole generation of people who believe that having these negative experiences- anxiety, fear, guilt, etc.- is totally not okay. I mean, if you look at your Facebook feed, everybody there a f***ing grand old time. Look, eight people got married this week! And some sixteen-year-old on TV got a Ferrari for her birthday. And another kid just made two billion dollars inventing an app that automatically delivers you more toilet paper when you run out.
Meanwhile, you're stuck at home flossing your cat. And you can't help but think your life sucks even more than you thought."
Social media doesn't make me feel like my life sucks. My life doesn't suck. In fact, it's pretty awesome. Even when I'm feeling down, it doesn't make me feel worse. However, I kind of see his point. After reading the chapter, I scrolled through my Facebook account. Many of the posts were in the category of hey-look-my-life-is-cooler-than-yours. But I also noticed that people felt okay to post about their negative experiences. For example, my sorority sister's three-year-old son just had surgery to remove a brain tumor. He is currently undergoing more treatment and she posts updates about his progress. She also posts about her guilt when she has to leave him to go to work and her fear that the treatment won't work. She receive messages support and encouragement from her family and friends and but people have used Facebook and other social networking tools to start a fundraising campaign and meal deliveries.
So, what do you think? Do we live in a hey-look-my-life-is-cooler-than-yours culture where people feel it's not okay to post negative experiences? Does social media add to the anxiety, fear, guilt, etc. that people already feel?